Women say rape is worse for them than men, so that proves we are different
They often use the argument how men wouldn't like being raped by another man when there is no comparison. They simply refuse to compare that by being raped by a fat women because they know that would sound ridicules a man could become so "Sad" "Depressed" by that.
So if women are so different in their sexuality that also means, sex, love, relationships are different between us. So they can say that not having a partner isn't bad and blah blah blah but they don't know what that feels like, so they should shut up.
Being incel is the man's equivalent of being raped. Being incel almost destroys a man, many go into extreme coping mode, playing way to many video games, becoming man children, lack motivation, neet up and so many other things.