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    [–]chiobu[S] 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

    Yeah he sounds unhinged in some posts:

    You totally caught me. I'm just trying to sneak up on you with my fairy wand, aka girl-dick to sprinkle magical goo on you that will turn you into a homosexual. :P

    I'm going to have to disagree. A trans woman has no obligation to disclose. It's probably not smart to withhold the information, especially if she hasn't had surgery, but she is in no way assaulting someone by not disclosing the status of her genitals before sex. And often if she DOES disclose that information she's very likely to be beaten, raped, or killed because of it. If she's had surgery she definitely doesn't have any obligation to disclose, especially since it's likely that her partner would never know otherwise. I feel like it's a bit dishonest if she doesn't and I personally would always disclose, but again, she's under no obligation. You can't catch transsexuality by touching one of us. We're not deadly tricksters that want to turn you gay. And honestly if things haven't gotten sexual then what right do you have to know what's in our pants? At what point are we obligated to tell you that we're trans? The first smile? The first conversation? If we're not having sex, it's none of your business, frankly. It might be frustrating to you that you run the risk of making out with a trans woman (oh noes!) but it can and does literally get us killed, so I'm sorry but I think a trans woman's safety comes before a potential partner's fear that they might be grossed out.

    Do you have an ovarit account? Wanna share this there but I'd need an invite code

    [–]Challenge 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    "At what point are we obligated to tell you that we're trans?" - common TRA tactic.

    Not nice to say it, but there is no way around it: At no point in a relationship does it make sense to say "well see, I'm actually a male pretending to be a female". Therefore, the only reasonable answer to this is: "you should never have pretended to be the opposite sex to start with".

    Misrepresenting your sex in public with intent to deceive is immoral, and a sane society would not allow it.