When it comes to the Bathroom thing, what do you say about the Women who claim they have no problem with TIMs being in the restroom?

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[–]arcticbasket 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

That's great. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. But just because they are okay with it doesn't mean they should expect all women to be okay with it.

[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Right but I think it gets awkward when you're outnumbered by women who think that TIMS have the right to be the women's restroom. Like I remember in the year when I hit my peak trans, I remember asking my female coworkers at work about how they felt about TIMs using the women's restroom and they said they didn't mind (It was all 3 of them). lol Of course at the time, I didn't think about going further and asking them that if they had daughters, would they feel safe knowing there's a Tim in there with them though I feel like they probably would just say they wouldn't mind

[–]arcticbasket 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The question is: do they really think that TIMs have the right to go in the women's restroom, or do they just say that because they're afraid of what people will think of them?

[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I REALLY feel it's the latter. I'm more than certain that deep down a lot more women don't want TIMs in their restrooms but because women are expected to put others before themselves and any source of non-compliance results in them getting harassed and demeaned (Look at JK Rowling, Magdalen Berns, Posie Parker, etc), they feel that they need to keep quiet about their true feelings. I think it's only when you bring children into it do some of them budge a bit.