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You do not have to hang out with people that you don't like. There are 8 billion people on the planet -- do you believe that you are obligated to be friends with all of them?

yes to all the other things said in this thread, except... your mom. Your mom clearly has issues of her own, and we know this just because she did not run screaming for the hills long ago when he told her that he liked dressing up/play acting as a baby. A person with healthy self esteem and healthy boundaries wouldn't have taken long to figure out that no, she's under no obligation to enable someone else's weird fetish.

So discuss this with your mom if you want, but I personally wouldn't count on her supporting your need to avoid this weirdo. I would discuss all this with your sister, because chances are better that she is equally as creeped out as you are. But even if she's not ready yet to grey rock him, you can. Grey Rock is a strategy for dealing with abusive/toxic/oddballs, and there's a ton of info on that if you search. There's no law that says you are required to interact with him just because he's in the same room.

PS why would you "dearly love" this guy? He's a creeper!!