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[–]marmalade 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You should absolutely stop interacting with this person as much as possible, and tell your mother that he makes you feel uncomfortable. I don't know your relationship with her, but I personally would be concerned about a grown man, anyone really, doing these things around my children. His behavior is alarming and unacceptable, and his mental issues are no excuse for it especially if your mother also knows about it. Please keep yourself safe, do not go out with this man alone or with your sisters, as he is using you vicariously to get his fix. He may seem happier now, but this is the commonly observed honeymoon phase and sooner than later he will crave more attention and persue even more extreme behavior. If he chooses to dress the way he does, that is his business and he should not involve you and use you and your sisters as fuel for his 'euphoria.'