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[–][deleted] 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

I really think nobody should transition. Not just because of the social implications but medical ones for the individual. Transitioning surgeries are experimental at best and butchering at worst, look at any bottom surgery result. Living a lie isn't psychologically healthy either.

And honestly I'm tired of men's stories. But even if the tide turns on this movement it will only focus on men's stories too.

[–]Skipdip[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Can you say more about what u mean about men’s stories? And what do you mean if the tide turns on this movement it will only focus on men’s stories too?

[–][deleted] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Like this person and his thoughts on AGP. I'm going to call them as I see them, and most transwomen are AGPs. HSTS aren't any better.

If people get sick of transgenderism and popular culture turns against it, or if there's a fallout with all of the medical malpractice on these people, men's tragic stories will dominate the media for sure. The collective longer-lasting damage to women will be a footnote.

[–]Skipdip[S] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

On another note: MezozoicGay (from Ukraine) said that in his experience 65-70% of TIFs are straight. My estimate was that the vast majority of TIFs are lesbian and bisexual. What are you’re thoughts on this? I can link the thread if you want

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If we're including the ones that call themselves nonbinary I would agree most are straight, or bisexual in theory but functionally straight.

Lesbian TIFs are more difficult to gauge. GNC Centric on YouTube brought up her experience as a lesbian who believed she was a gay transman. Some believe they're straight or asexual transmen. A lot of them want to disappear and live completely stealth. Which also bothers me, whatever narrative comes from this movement won't look into this specific group when it's clearly the most psychologically diverse. When this whole thing is recorded in history, it'll be five million stories on some men's crippling addiction to wearing women's underwear or watching too much porn.

Rambling, but my thoughts. Sure, I'd like to read that if you have the link.

[–]MarkTwainiac 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The research that's been done on STIs and HIV amongst adult TIFs indicate that a good number of adult TIFs have penetrative penile-anal sex with men in which the TIFs are the receptive parties (bottoms). But this research was done before the outbreak of ROGD amongst teens and young adults.

Whether most adult TIFs can be characterized as straight and bi rather than lesbians is hard to say. For all the talk about "being true to their authentic selves," the impression I get is that a lot of TIFs actually have no idea who they really are and what their true sexual orientation is. I don't say that as criticism or condemnation of them. It just seems that many of the people caught up in the trans craze suffered abuse, trauma and dissociation early in life, and unfortunately are still reacting to how others have treated them in the past rather than acting according to their own inner desires and inclinations.

[–]Skipdip[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes I definitely agree with the last part of what you said. Are you familiar with the pre and perinatal somatic psychology field? https://birthpsychology.com/ https://www.ppncenter.com/

In my opinion this field and the somatic trauma healing field in general has the answers for how to heal the effects of early trauma that mess with people sense of self, and capacity for relationships, among other things.

[–]Skipdip[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sigh, you are probably correct. :/ but not if I have anything to do with it!