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[–]jkfinn 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's not the seeing, it's the unilateral seeing. He eroticizes you and then he looks at you. His seeing has little to do with you, but more to do with what he’s done to you... that is, made you sexual... made you a sex object. So, seeing as a form of possession is what's wrong, not seeing. And most women don't see in this way because they either don't wish to, or do not possesses the power to, except (more rarely) with other women.

[–]Mencantbewomen[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Interesting perspective! Thanks!!