Also, and I mean this with all sincerity, not meant to be hurtful or mean spirited- I think whatever cloud lives above you that makes you say certain things about yourself, about men, and even about being trans is hindering your ability to comprehend someone else being trans and just not so deeply full of self-loathing. You say things that make me feel so sad for you sometimes, and I honestly think that the transwomen who can acknowledge that they are (technically) men have likely found some way to look at things beyond themselves because they aren’t so consumed with themselves. Idk if that makes sense, especially to you, I’m just saying that the transwomen i see who can acknowledge the things you can’t, even the people in this sub, all seem much happier and still just as “legitimately” trans.