I wouldn't put that stuff on Social Media, and if my kids did, I'd post some of their private business to show them how that works. She did everything right, imo, except educating that child at a younger age that nothing is free and her love and support may be given, nothing else is. I became a single father when my kids were pretty young and I decided to make our family a team effort. They were eager to chip in and it carried over through their teens, for the most part. Yeah, they're kind of slobs in their own rooms, but nothing our house would get condemned over. They also kick in rent and bills now while they figure out their next moves.