How to stop being easily triggered/bothered by men's opinions and not get instantly into defensive mode?

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Here's the drill: you can't control anyone else. Sure. You COULD stir around in mental turmoil. The more your mind tries to reason with that, the more you're going to struggle psychologically for it. I do it too, it is what it is. Just bury yourself in things that you enjoy, talk to people that you feel like you can still respect but don't necessarily share the same opinions on everything, and take shit day by day.

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Thank you, I find it's better if I don't engage at all since nothing good ever comes out of it. I'm starting to care less anyways cause Im slowly realizing how pointless it is to dvelve into things like these, saves me more energy and peace

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It's keeping that frame of mind that I struggle with, but you might find it easier and hopefully you do. Sometimes it's not pointless to defend points that you care about, but it's more of a learning how to choose which battles you want to go into thing. Good luck with it either way.