Unfortunately this is the reason why libfem works. Every "feminist" woman I've met prefaced it with "I'm not like the eeevil extreme feminists, I don't own cats, I don't hate men, I like makeup, blablabla". It makes my eyes role every single time because in the end they're exactly the type of woman that is the opposite of a feminist, a male opinion fearing and male approval seeking useful idiot that will push her own gender under the bus so she could play being a progressive woman and still suck dick. It is frustrating because even showing a mild sign that you disagree with any of the typical libfem narrative will get you labelled as an extremist. It hurts when I read about all the women that have sacrificed so much in order to pave the path to much needed essential rights only for these microcephaliacs to soil the noble cause with their mental gymnastics like the ones you've already mentioned. So true feminists are a minority and even in those circles they still couple with men and make exceptions for them. Any hope and attempt for voicing reason is an exercise in futility.