Lady’s don’t like me due to the horn effect it’s a theory where people who look a certain way are more likely to be in a position where most people will believe the worst about them along with not trusting them all because of their looks. It’s the opposite of this with the halo effect. the halo effect can make it so that a lady can easily believe a good looking guy will be a lovely person while the good looking guy might be a repulsive person when he shows people who he really is.
The horn effect makes life brutal for those with experience of how bad it is a guy who doesn’t look all that good could be someone who won’t want to cause any harm yet some people will believe the worst about him all to easily. Ok so my looks play a big part in why lady’s don’t like me it’s pretty black pilled.
Another reason ladys don’t like me is my social incompetence I have Asperger’s syndrome so I cause bad social outcomes when I never want to cause any bad social outcomes. People can pick up on the fact that I have a mental disorder quite fast and it puts others in a state of discomfort.
The final reason I have for lady’s disliking me is because it’s common for people in social groups to believe lies about others quite easily if someone in a social group seems socially incompetent those who do not understand that socially incompetent person are likely to create lies about them due to how common it is for people in social groups to believe socially incompetent people have the worst potential when they don’t they’re just people who are at a disadvantage in life with people always hating them because they always believe the worst about them leading to them being socially excluded to easily
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