What would you reccomend my trans friend to do?

submitted by DerpDerp3001 from (self.AskSaidIt)

He has already gone under surgery so unfortunately from most of you guys' perspective, he as already mutilated himself and have used those drugs. Specifically, he is female to male.

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[–]POOPCORN 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (12 children)

He should learn to pronounce the word regret in several languages.

[–]KyleIsThisTall 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

she

[–]DerpDerp3001[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (10 children)

He has not regretted it.

[–]POOPCORN 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

Not yet.

I used to have this acquaintance he was an enforcer for the Tijuana cartels, he was a fairly high-ranking guy also, he told me about his experience with relationships.. he told me that we don't have problems in the beginning of a relationship, but then instead problems with relationships always come at the end of the relationship.

Regret doesn't come in the beginning, but instead it comes at the tail end.

He has not experienced regret, not yet.

[–]DerpDerp3001[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (7 children)

It has been a few years. Usually, they regret it during the first three years, but it was 2019 when he got the surgery to give himself a shlong.

[–]POOPCORN 4 insightful - 5 fun4 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

I remember I used to watch this sub on Reddit /r/f2m or /r/ftm I can't remember which one it was but they've taken it private since then and they used to post pictures of their penises of the women that had transitioned to become a male and they were the funniest looking strangest looking penises I've ever seen in my life.. but everybody would come in the sub and praise them and tell them how wonderful it looked but oh my God those things looked funny.

All they have to do is to get a Playgirl magazine and look at some dick from men or get one of them gay magazines and look at men dick and they know that there's don't look like a dick.

[–]KyleIsThisTall 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

No, SHE did not give HERSELF a "schlong". That THING is an abomination of mutilated flesh.

[–]DerpDerp3001[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

That is not how it works. The PP is grown with hormones.

[–]KyleIsThisTall 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

lol no. it's skin from the forearm , thigh, or calf.

[–]DerpDerp3001[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

False.

[–]KyleIsThisTall 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Hahhaaaa liar

[–]DerpDerp3001[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I am not lying; how do I prove I am telling the truth. I looked up how it is done.

[–]KyleIsThisTall 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well then she is a sociopath and you need to stay far away.

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Reality would offend her at this point. Too late.

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Hope that he doesn't change his mind and severely regret this? Not much else he can do at this point it would seem

[–]POOPCORN 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I heard a story in a 12-step alcoholics anonymous meeting years ago about a man who thought that he could make things good in his life by having his penis removed and getting a sex change.

But then later he changed his mind and had the breasts removed and he now lives as a man but when he gets out of the shower in the morning he has to look down at a fake vagina.

One day at a time

[–]KyleIsThisTall 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

SHE is FEMALE and completely destroyed.

My best recommendation is STAY THE FUCK AWAY FROM KIDS!!!

[–]thomastheglassexpert 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Get you and your sexual deviancy the fuck away from me and stay that way. Just like your father warned you "never fuck crazy" then also never let crazy hang around you. GTFO is the only answer.

[–]puppy528 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The exact same as we'd have recommended before the surgery; try to find inner peace and accept himself and the life he still has left to live. You can't change what is done, but as long as you're still above ground, you can still make the most of the blessings you have from here.