I, nor anyone, nor the matrix can "tell you who you are" nor tell you your truth. Another, a person other than yourself can only point to the doors of perception's nob. It is up to you to turn it and walk through.

Here are a few quotes describing the door nob:

Do not believe in what you have heard. Do not believe in tradition because they have been handed down for generations. Do not believe in anything because it is rumored and spoken of by many. Do not believe merely because the written statement of some old sage is produced. Do not believe in conjectures. Do not believe merely in the authority of your teachers and elders. After observation and analysis, when it agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and benefit of one and all… Then accept it and live up to it. -Buddha

Few people are capable of expressing with equanimity opinions, which differ from the prejudices of their social environment. Most people are even incapable of forming such opinions. - Albert Einstein

The things to do are: the things that need doing: that you see need to be done, and that no one else seems to see need to be done. Then you will conceive your own way of doing that, which needs to be done --that no one else has told you to do or how to do it. This will bring out the real you that often gets buried inside a character that has acquired a superficial array of behaviors induced or imposed by others on the individual.” -R. Buckminster Fuller

The significant problems we face today cannot be solved by utilizing the same mind set we were within when we created them. - Albert Einstein

“CONVENTIONAL CRITICAL-PATH CONCEPTIONING is linear and self-under-informative. Only spherically expanding and contracting, spinning, polarly involution and evoluting orbital-system feedbacks are both comprehensively and incisively informative. Spherical-orbital critical-feedback circuits are pulsative, tidal, importing and exporting. Critical-path elements are not overlapping linear modules in a plane: they are systemically interspiraling complexes of omni-interrelevant regenerative feedback circuits. ---Synergetics 2 [revised]” -R. Buckminster Fuller