Somehow I only now noticed what the subreddit called r/LGB looks like on Reddit

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"Allies".

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The mod who permabanned me admitted that the original mod (who kept his presence to the minimum) haven't logged into the modmail for a year now.

So I guess the two remaining mods are having a new beginning now.

I mean, if username summons are bannable, why are they even a valid feature to begin with? I'm so confused.

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Unfortunately, you're not missing a joke. I'm afraid it's a problem we have to finally face -- bisexuals spread rhetorics harmful to homosexuals, in our own spaces. I don't know if there's more fake bi women who do this, but I for sure encountered a lot of bi guys on r/askgaybros who do it.

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I just got permabanned from r/askgaybros (not by reddit!) for some ridiculous reason, so I guess that's already happening.

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Straight men and their fantasies...

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This problem will continue to grow, unless we treat the problem of bisexuals invading gay spaces seriously.

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So to dye hair blue, you need to first dye them yellow?

Fuck, I didn't know that.

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you can't keep posting about it

Oh? Sounds a lot like a challenge.

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Wtf, I'm scared. These comments read like NPC programming.

"We support our Great Trans Overlords. They're right about everything. Love, peace and unity."

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Bisexuals. The use of "pansexual" only supports TRA claims that sexual orientation can be about gender.

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Oh, look. We're in kindergarten again.

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Oh, I'm really sorry that some bi men don't know that they're bi, not gay, and they choose to behave like animals in my gay space. Please, all other bisexuals, use this as an opportunity to make yourselves a victim that needs comforting!

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I just want to hear what you mean by that, because I'm tired of that "bi person would never, it's just pretenders" narrative and I refuse to believe it's what you're pursuing.

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He can't identify as homosexual, because he will be sending the wrong message that gay men can be somewhat attracted to females. That's redefinition of homosexuality and I'm surprised to see it suggested here, since it's the favorite TRA rhetoric.

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Pity. I don't intend to bend to majority just because I'm a minority. As homosexuals, we have lots of enemies and we certainly won't reach freedom by allowing these enemies to do whatever the fuck they want to our community.

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And that's exactly what I have in mind. Askgaybros is unmoderated, so no one should be banned from it, no matter who they are. Bi people need to understand for themselves the value of having their own spaces instead of invading others, which is an act of self-erasure, rooted in the idea that bisexuals are just straight and gay at the same time. And I did convince some bi men to leave AGB, in the spirit of peace and reasonable conversation.

The problem is, many don't want to leave, because they have nowhere else to go. Latching onto gay communities, their own are underdeveloped and empty. It's difficult to banish them to those now and kind of a shitty thing to do, but I do believe it should be done.

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aLL vIrGiNs ArE aSeXuaL!

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I don't hate bisexuals, but what's the point of having gay space if bisexuals must be let into it? What's even the point of having words and meaning behind them, if we don't respect that, because some people feel not included?

It's exactly the same rhetoric trans men are using to enter our spaces despite being females. We can't call out some of them while allowing others to do whatever the fuck they want.

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Please, stop. I'm the opposite of squeamish, but you're somehow triggering me.

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I think it's time to remove that "super" from your flair, champ.

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I don’t know about you, but if a bisexual man understands biology, I have no problem with him being a guest in gay men’s spaces.

I still do mind that, until I hear one good reason why SPECIFICALLY GAY space (so not some cloudy "men attracted to other men space") should be inclusive of completely different sexual orientation. Considering that you're all eager to defend LGB spaces from other agents attempting a similar invasion, it's hypocritical of you to claim "it's okay" in case of bisexuals.

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I question the genuineness of using "bisexual" by many of the people described as behaving this way, as well.

So you believe they are really gay men who just happen to have female attraction as well?

That's a homophobic idea.

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Perhaps, but who even says I'm calling out all bisexuals? I've mentioned a very specific group of bisexuals that invades r/askgaybros and bisexuals in the comments to this post all go "hurr durr not all bisexuals!". You have – and this time I mean all of bisexuals, apparently – very similar mentality to Ts in department of making yourself the victims, even when we're discussing part of your community doing something shitty.

The post is about bi people who invade gay and lesbian spaces and you make it all about yourselves and supposed "oppression". If that's the case, please explain on what basis do you feel entitled to be let into our spaces.

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Personally, I think the subreddit should be for discussion of homosexuality and homosexual attraction, which bisexuals feel in addition to heterosexual attraction.

Wait a minute, I keep hearing that bisexuals are bisexuals, not just homosexuals and heterosexuals at the same time.

You don't get to scream "eRaSuRe!" when it suits your whims and then basically call for it yourselves, just because you want to be included in other letter's spaces.

When someone asks a question like, "Do gay men have sex with women," then obviously the question excludes bisexuals since it is asking about gay men

The subreddit's name is askGAYbros. There's no need to specify "do gay men do something..." when it's implied in the name of the subreddit. People answering to these questions should ALWAYS be gays, not bisexuals.

bisexual men can relate just as easily as a gay man

Yeah, they can relate so much that somehow their takes are always tainted and unrelatable for gay men and send so many wrong messages in the name of our community that sometimes bystanders don't know wtf is our point when we keep saying contradicting stuff.

Again, there are some differences where bisexuals can't relate, but they do feel homosexual attraction and can relate to that.

They don't feel homosexual attraction, because homosexuality is an exclusive sexual attraction to the same sex. Bisexuality is it's own thing. Stop.

I really don't like how bisexuals abuse their privilege. It's very in style of the Ts. Gays want to have a space for themselves? No way, that's biphobia, you can't exclude us! Someone calls a bi person "gay" – "oMg eRaSuRE!!!!"

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Who says I'm assuming you are all the same?

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