Since the discussion about bisexual men in gay specific spaces was diverted and ridiculed the last time, I want to continue it with specific examples. It's important to me, as I see a very toxic trend of creating taboo when it comes to bisexuals – you can't criticize a small group of them without triggering hysteria that it's rooted in biphobia, hate and bigotry. So let me share my perspective and the types of bisexual men that I have to deal with – for reasons unknown – in my gay space.
Here, a bisexual man explains to me – a gay man – how homosexuality works and how I have to accept that his friend attracted to a trans man is a genuine gay, as some gay men can be attracted to females.
The bisexual guy that I mentioned the last time, who was answering to trans posts and assuring them that he's attracted to trans men without specifying that he's bi did it again, third time in this week.
Another bisexual is openly taunting everyone who notices the problem with bisexual crowd in gay spaces.
A bisexual openly calling gay men "faggots" – which was reported to admins and ignored.
Bisexual men in gay specific spaces are a problem and it needs to be addressed. It would be a problem even if they were behaving somewhat acceptable, but as of lately, they're more and more homophobic.
Before the crowd that likes to be the victims says anything: it doesn't mean that ALL bisexual people are a problem. It also doesn't mean that we should "drop the B", so please, try to limit hysterical reaction and the mentality of making yourself a victim, because I feel lonely and othered in my own gay space and I know this is something lesbians go through in their spaces for similar reasons.
