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Somehow I only now noticed what the subreddit called r/LGB looks like on Reddit
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"Allies".

The problem of bisexual rhetorics being applied to homosexuals discussed on r/askgaybros
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The mod who permabanned me admitted that the original mod (who kept his presence to the minimum) haven't logged into the modmail for a year now.

So I guess the two remaining mods are having a new beginning now.

I mean, if username summons are bannable, why are they even a valid feature to begin with? I'm so confused.

The problem of bisexual rhetorics being applied to homosexuals discussed on r/askgaybros
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Unfortunately, you're not missing a joke. I'm afraid it's a problem we have to finally face -- bisexuals spread rhetorics harmful to homosexuals, in our own spaces. I don't know if there's more fake bi women who do this, but I for sure encountered a lot of bi guys on r/askgaybros who do it.

The problem of bisexual rhetorics being applied to homosexuals discussed on r/askgaybros
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I just got permabanned from r/askgaybros (not by reddit!) for some ridiculous reason, so I guess that's already happening.

Oh my fkn god. The victim complexes on these people
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Straight men and their fantasies...

Gay as in...
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This problem will continue to grow, unless we treat the problem of bisexuals invading gay spaces seriously.

Step by step instructions on how to create a brand new /r/lgbt subscriber
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So to dye hair blue, you need to first dye them yellow?

Fuck, I didn't know that.

You’re LITERALLY killing them by not liking πŸ†, bigot!
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you can't keep posting about it

Oh? Sounds a lot like a challenge.

And everybody in /r/tttt clapped
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Wtf, I'm scared. These comments read like NPC programming.

"We support our Great Trans Overlords. They're right about everything. Love, peace and unity."

TRA just witnessed blatant transphobia in /r/AGB. No really.
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Bisexuals. The use of "pansexual" only supports TRA claims that sexual orientation can be about gender.

B in LG spaces dilemma
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Oh, look. We're in kindergarten again.

Can We Not?
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Oh, I'm really sorry that some bi men don't know that they're bi, not gay, and they choose to behave like animals in my gay space. Please, all other bisexuals, use this as an opportunity to make yourselves a victim that needs comforting!

B in LG spaces dilemma
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I just want to hear what you mean by that, because I'm tired of that "bi person would never, it's just pretenders" narrative and I refuse to believe it's what you're pursuing.

Bi men in gay spaces – examples of constant homophobia, misinformation and undermining our definitions
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He can't identify as homosexual, because he will be sending the wrong message that gay men can be somewhat attracted to females. That's redefinition of homosexuality and I'm surprised to see it suggested here, since it's the favorite TRA rhetoric.

Bi men in gay spaces – examples of constant homophobia, misinformation and undermining our definitions
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Pity. I don't intend to bend to majority just because I'm a minority. As homosexuals, we have lots of enemies and we certainly won't reach freedom by allowing these enemies to do whatever the fuck they want to our community.

Bi men in gay spaces – examples of constant homophobia, misinformation and undermining our definitions
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And that's exactly what I have in mind. Askgaybros is unmoderated, so no one should be banned from it, no matter who they are. Bi people need to understand for themselves the value of having their own spaces instead of invading others, which is an act of self-erasure, rooted in the idea that bisexuals are just straight and gay at the same time. And I did convince some bi men to leave AGB, in the spirit of peace and reasonable conversation.

The problem is, many don't want to leave, because they have nowhere else to go. Latching onto gay communities, their own are underdeveloped and empty. It's difficult to banish them to those now and kind of a shitty thing to do, but I do believe it should be done.

Bi men in gay spaces – examples of constant homophobia, misinformation and undermining our definitions
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aLL vIrGiNs ArE aSeXuaL!

Bi men in gay spaces – examples of constant homophobia, misinformation and undermining our definitions
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I don't hate bisexuals, but what's the point of having gay space if bisexuals must be let into it? What's even the point of having words and meaning behind them, if we don't respect that, because some people feel not included?

It's exactly the same rhetoric trans men are using to enter our spaces despite being females. We can't call out some of them while allowing others to do whatever the fuck they want.

Bi men in gay spaces – examples of constant homophobia, misinformation and undermining our definitions
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Please, stop. I'm the opposite of squeamish, but you're somehow triggering me.

Bi men in gay spaces – examples of constant homophobia, misinformation and undermining our definitions
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I think it's time to remove that "super" from your flair, champ.

Bi men in gay spaces – examples of constant homophobia, misinformation and undermining our definitions
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I don’t know about you, but if a bisexual man understands biology, I have no problem with him being a guest in gay men’s spaces.

I still do mind that, until I hear one good reason why SPECIFICALLY GAY space (so not some cloudy "men attracted to other men space") should be inclusive of completely different sexual orientation. Considering that you're all eager to defend LGB spaces from other agents attempting a similar invasion, it's hypocritical of you to claim "it's okay" in case of bisexuals.