When men and women fight, its almost always the man who needs to initiate reconciliation.

When men and women fight, women are the ones who ghost and disappear.

This is cultural. In most white cultures it's the case but in Western black culture it's the woman who has to make amends. If you look at the current state of black families you'll see why white men are happy to keep it that why. This is also born out in mixed race marriages. Marriages of white women and black men have the highest breakup rate because neither will do the apologising and will both walk out while marriages of black women and white men have the lowest divorce rate.

This while thread is nothing to do with love. It's the cultural expectations of who does the shit eating in a relationship. It might be tough for men in the moment but they actually get a lot of benefits from it, more relationship/family stability, which is why that culture continues. Meanwhile black women are having to now set up things like Female Dating Strategy to try to force their relationships into that culture. Maybe follow their tips if you want to be the princess for a change.