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[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Test if it works for you: stop looking at porn or touching yourself for a month or 3. Then start doing it again, and note if you get MORE the urge to indulge while abstinent or the reverse.

[–]happysmash27 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I originally started masturbating in the first place to reduce sexual desire (it was one of the suggested methods when I looked it up online), and it seems to have worked pretty well. As for porn, I rarely look at it anyways.

[–]Canbot 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I'm pretty sure not masturbating is widely acknowledged to increase motivation to find a partner. My personal experience with blue balls is that I am far more pervy around hot girls when I am horny. Is that seriously not your experience?

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Have YOU done that experiment? Why take anybody else's word for it? Why do you think the word is going to shit in a bucket and fast? Because people BELIEVE what's being said. From 'sources'.

Whatever happened to figuring stuff out for yourself, you know?

[–]Canbot 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My personal experience with blue balls

What part of that did you not understand?