You comment is really interesting because catholic leaders had this same quandry to deal with after the pope was shown that the Talmud existed. They tried two different strategies. One was Sicut Judais non. This was a papal policy that the Jews could live in christian lands and they were to be protected on the condition Jews refrain from undermining christian culture. This approach failed so the church then moved to the 'convert or get out' strategy which also failed. This started the whole crypto Jew thing with the Spanish converso crisis.

The problem with Jews is they think they are entitled to your shit so there's no negotiating with them. The catholic church learned this the hard way twice and they've since been totally subverted and sidelined by modern Jewry.

How do we incorporate Jews into western civilization?

In order to survive Jews turned themselves into a poison pill that kills any host that swallows. How do you incorporate a people that don't want to be incorporated?