This is it exactly. They sell the message that the world is to blame for not validating and deifying behaviors that are objectively weird and off putting. They teach vulnerable children an us vs. them mentality to deal with everyone else, and are sold the contemptible lie that they are more important than “cis” people. In reality, the vast majority of humanity. They teach this toxic mindset to kids, who go out in the world and act like insufferable narcissists and then run crying back to these people when normal people don’t want anything to do with them.

In essence, they make everyone but themselves responsible for their wellbeing, which is the express way to misery. Instead of teaching resilience, respect for others, and how to agree to disagree but still coexist peacefully, they turn vulnerable kids into gender ideology zealots who are either miserable, disrespectful, or regular bullies of the cry bully archetype. Then they turn around and demand more money because everyone who sees them for support keep getting worse and worse and worse.

It’s a cycle that needs to be stopped. You do you, but if you act like an obnoxious freak, you don’t get to cry that people treat you accordingly.