This whole episode feels like a strawman argument made by a misogynist about why women shouldn't be pilots lol. She's basically going up there and demonstrating exactly those stereotypical "feminine" traits which aren't congruent to any professional role and I should hope any serious professional feminist or career focused woman would be first in line to shut her down lest such displays become common and reflect poorly on the entire sex.

Any pilot regardless of who they are who puts on a bizzare display like this needs to be grounded. We don't know if they are drunk or suicidal or just having a moment but regardless we don't want them responsible for people's lives.