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[–]Q-Continuum-kin 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yes it's called puberty.

[–]UncleWillard56 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

OR why not let nature take its course? Sure, I'm old (58), but being a kid used to last longer. No one expected you to make huge decisions by the time you got your first pube. Adults let us figure stuff out by ourselves, for the most part, and we were better for it. These kids grew up with helicopter parents who made every decision for them and packed their day full of approved activities with little to no room to just be a kid. The results are now stunted adults who need constant input from some authority figure (and mostly its social media now), and can't just be a person.

[–]Titanic[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Maybe my method could be used as a last resort.