"I am a non-binary woman"

Lol ok. Doesn't that completely miss the point of being non-binary. Sounds like you are just saying I'm retarded with extra steps.

"I have a vagina owner"

Damn I didn't know slavery was cool with the no -binary, awesome, barkeep get me one double non-binary to go.

Anyway the rest of it is equally retarded. Basically "my husband isn't awknoledging my identify because he doesn't say he's queer, I'm not a woman!"

First of all you already said you were a woman dumbass.

Anyway, knew a guy in a relationship that had this problem. Wife decided she was a man. Got pissy at the guy because he wouldn't come out as gay because he's not. Ended with divorce, guy went super machismo after that to compensate it seems which ironically makes him seem more gay than he was before. Woman doesn't want to bother with feminine shit, dresses or whatever, that's fine, once you go into weirdo identify territory it's a clear sign of insanity.

Anyway here's how you handle this situation if you are ever unlucky enough to find yourself in it.

"Why won't you awknoledge that we are in a queer relationship!"

"Because we aren't"

"But I'm not a woman I'm non-binary"

"I'm sorry you misunderstand, we are no longer in a relationship, goodbye."

Plenty of fish in the sea and all that. No need to waste time with crazy women. As the good book says. "It is better to dwell in the wilderness, Than with a contentious and an angry woman"