Honestly, I think the only logical way to stop the latter: Sic the incels on the Queer community. the Q already say they're not same-sex attracted and it's oppression to demand it, they say as their logic any sex should be meat slapping against meat to make them feel good and any sexual interest should be validated and celebrated...and the only way to do those is to happily fuck the person... that means incels (who merely have the sexual preference "I would like to have sex but cannot find a willing partner") should go to them and say "I have a sexual kink/preference that I'm being oppressed for. By your own logic, it is your moral imperative to fuck me and validate my sexuality in the process."