'Nobody told me how lonely being a man is': Transgender man weeps while explaining how much easier it was to make friends with 'open, vulnerable women' - and says he can see why suicide rate among males is higher

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[–]hfxB0oyADon't piss on my head & tell me it's raining. 15 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 2 fun -  (21 children)

Her breakdown is just more proof that she does not possess the brain of a man. We're just not wired to need the same intensity of social connection that women do. No amount of beard growing and baseball cap wearing is going to cover for that.

[–]Alienhunter糞大名 8 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 4 fun -  (20 children)

'I am an emotionally matured man, I know how to build friendships, and it's still really really hard.'

Emotionally mature men don't talk about being emotionally mature. If you are you are, you don't need to tell people about it.

Finally emotionally mature people don't go on Tiktok and cry about how hard it is to make friends.

Like seriously it is super fucking easy for men to make friends. Step one, don't be a fucking dumbass. Step two, go to the bar or join a sport or something with other people around.

You aren't gonna have it as easy as you did in school as an adult since adults are busy, but you go get a productive hobby that gets you out of the house and you will make friends. Some excellent manly hobby, like soccer, or alcoholism, or knitting. Loads of options.

[–]hfxB0oyADon't piss on my head & tell me it's raining. 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

Yep, nobody told her that it's lonely being a guy because actual men don't find it lonely to be a guy. This is a classic example of the ladies just not getting it, like how they'll ask you what you're thinking about and can't wrap their head around it when you answer 'nothing'.

[–]FourteenDigitz 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Sounds like you’re the one who doesn’t get it

[–]hfxB0oyADon't piss on my head & tell me it's raining. 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Let me be the first to congratulate you on your gender confirmation surgery.

[–]wylanderuk 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

like how they'll ask you what you're thinking about and can't wrap their head around it when you answer 'nothing'.

Or who would win bat man vs bobba fett? Or how easy would it be to trim the hedge with a lightsaber, or 1001 uses for a lightsaber or If I was Darth Vader I could shut you the fuck up with my mind...Or its a pity the mute button on the remote does not work on people.

[–]hfxB0oyADon't piss on my head & tell me it's raining. 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Totally Batman, as long as he was up against fat old Disney Boba Fett.

[–]Alienhunter糞大名 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Batman wins against all versions of Boba Fett. Boba Fett is cool only when he doesn't do stuff. Forget the Disney heresies.

Boba Fett was at his most interesting without the suit, during that cartoon when he was trying to get revenge on Samuel L Jackson for killing his father. That's basically the only time he has any character.

In the originals he shows up in basically two scenes. And in one of them he dies like an idiot.

His one cool scene in the movies is when he hides in the trash and starts following the Falcon secretly. That's it. You don't even know his name in that movie. He's just a bounty hunter.

That trick was stolen from Obiwan anyway who used it against Boba Fett's father during their space battle.

The real question to ask is who would win in a battle between Bat-Man and Obi-Wan. That is a battle worth watching.

Bat-Man vs Boba Fett would go like this, Batman dodges Boba Fett's rope, throws batterang at Boba Fett and hits his Jetpack, Jetpack explodes, Boba Fett falls into the Alligator enclosure and gets eaten.

What kind of dumbass builds a jetpack for combat that is triggered by impacts?

[–]hfxB0oyADon't piss on my head & tell me it's raining. 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

You nailed it. Batman vs Obi Wan, I'd put my money on Obi Wan, only because he's okay with killing people. That's a big edge.

[–]Alienhunter糞大名 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Obi Wan wouldn't be able to use the "These aren't the droids you are looking for" on Batman so he looses one of his signature moves. Batman also being Batman would have some kind of lightsaber resistant SPF-9001 bat-spray in his utility belt which would make the weapon far less effective for Obi-Wan.

[–]hfxB0oyADon't piss on my head & tell me it's raining. 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

True, but Obi Wan could force push Batman into the Joker's loving arms.

[–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Are you sure you haven't just accepted it, because everyone forced you to?

[–]FourteenDigitz 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

Emotionally mature men don't talk about being emotionally mature.

Yes they do lol. You just wouldn’t know because you have the emotional maturity of a newborn, as do 90% of men

[–]Alienhunter糞大名 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

Hey guys look how emotionally mature I am! I am so emotionally mature that the existential doom of life and emotional hardship doesn't bother me because I'm an emotionally mature man with no emotions. Emotions are for women and babies! Not me I'm super mature!!! Look how super mature I am!!

Emotionally mature men will talk about their emotions sure. But they don't break down crying while broadcasting to the world how emotionally mature they are.

We break down crying when we are alone and nobody can see it.

[–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

That's not maturity. That's fear of punishment for "failing society" by having even the slightest hint of weakness.

[–]Alienhunter糞大名 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Society will destroy you for showing weakness. Like it or not, agree with it or not, that's a rational fear.

There's another reason, emotional breakdowns make other people uncomfortable, keep it to your very close friends if you must, but everyone else is dealing with their own shit as well and most likely doesn't want to deal with yours on top of it.

[–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

They only make people uncomfortable if you're a man. If you're a woman they make everyone love you. Because men are worthless I guess, and women deserve everything.

[–]Alienhunter糞大名 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Women have far more latitude to express emotion in public than men. But it really depends on the context and most of the time, emotional outbursts by women do make people uncomfortable, the main difference is an emotionally compromised man can be threatening, an emotionally compromised woman is often less so.

Regardless women are advised to adopt a demeanor that keeps them calm and collected even when under emotional stress, as while people are far more tolerant of emotional displays from women, it doesn't exactly lead to respect.

There are exceptions of course. Dealing with things like the death of a close friend or family member, crying at a wedding, or a funeral, there's a time and a place. But if you throw a tantrum in the doughnut shop because they are out of sprinkles, man or woman, nobody there will be comfortable with your shit.

[–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Depends how she comes off I guess. If she's clearly just being a whiny bitch people will get annoyed. However if she seems genuinely in need people will feel sorry for her; whereas with a man they'll scold him and tell him he better get over it or they'll do something to him.

[–]exceed0153 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

We break down crying when we are alone and nobody can see it.

I can't believe the shit I'm reading here, that ridiculous OP comment and now this shit. You people are way way more fucked than the "troons" you hate so much

[–]Alienhunter糞大名 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

You should make a TikTok video whining about it to the whole world. Turn up the hysteractics for maximum impact.

[–]bife_de_lomo 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

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