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[–]Femaleisnthateful 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

The top comments are surprisingly based. People (if they identify as such) telling OP that no one owes him dick, explaining same-sex attraction. Maybe the mods are sleeping.

I have such shadenfreude reading the comments from the incels complaining how they're 'touch-starved', they date even less than when they thought they were guys, etc.

[–]xoenix[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Sorry, I sorted by new in the link. The "top" comments are the usual reality distortion.

This comment is especially good:

I find that Bi/Pan people/spaces are a better crowd overall if you aren't an attractive Cis Woman, even outside of dating; Lots of Lesbian TERFs.

Gee, I wonder why a dude would have more luck with bi/pan-sexuals than lesbians?

[–]Wanderingthehalls 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

I mean, he won't. He's just saying what he thinks he might expect to find, not what he has actually found. People who can be attracted to either sex aren't attracted to what are, at best, weird incongruent mash-ups and, at worst - yet 95% of the time, delusional creeps in bad drag.

[–]Haylstorm 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

No no there's def at least one weirdo out there into it. Who they will promptly reject for fetishizing them. That's how that one usually goes.

Remember that post where a transwomen hid it from a bi guy then got mad he could tell and was chill with it? Went really homophobic on the poor dude for just being like "you were fun I don't mind another date" just because he wasn't straight and the transwoman assumed that meant he was gay and that was the reason lol.

Bi guy actually seemed pretty chill, hope he found someone who wasn't crazy.

[–]xoenix[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I suspect there are more than a few straight girls who have been trained to hate "toxic masculinity", and would normally go for goth or punk or hippie dudes. Unfortunately this generation's goth guys are transbians, so they become the "lesbians" these guys are looking for.

[–]Femaleisnthateful 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I've seen transwomen get really angry about bi people because they realize they don't see them as women.

[–]OuroborosTheory 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

of course if they switch to the currently-mandatory term "pan" that means that they DON'T see them as women, but as tr*ns women