I'd have no issues with gay doctors lawyers or airline pilots going to schools and talking about how they struggled as teens and how they went on their professional journey, but the question is, why does it matter that they are gay?

That's the stupid part for me. "I fuck men, therefore I am a pilot" how does that track? Why does it matter? Like imagine if a straight man came into school and gave a talk like "When I was your aged I struggled to get a date but now I'm a successful doctor and I have my choice of ass". Or "I fucked everyone in highschool and it gave me the interpersonal skills to be a successful lawyer and fuck people over in the courtroom".

I mean might as well have Monica Lewinsky come in and give an inspiring speech about how sleeping with the president help her to be an accomplished author.

I don't mind the teenagers who are gay having the positive stereotypes by which you can tell them, you aren't broken, your life doesn't have to be shit. But if I'm getting called into a meeting with teens to talk about my professional career you bet your ass I'm not touching highschool dating advice with a 10 foot pole beyond the common platitudes of be yourself, focus on your studies now. Etc.

Because gay or straight anyone taking an interest in the sex lives of highschool students is playing with fire. That shit never works out.