That's the thing about gender theory that gets overlooked. When you've got a man in a dress in any place or any situation, that totally takes over that place or situation. Like, a family turns into a family where daddy's growing titties, Victoria's Secret turns into some weird center for male gratification, and a girl's swim meet turns into a girl's swim meet where a boy is winning everything. And it may feel great for these people, but it's profoundly selfish in terms of everyone else's misery, and I don't think the answer is for everyone else not to be miserable.