It kinda goes into another thought that I had that I'll make a sepereate post on, but the basis of it is that who you are has no affect on how others perceive you.

I've only ever worked shitty retail jobs anyway because I'm young but even then the difference between how the prettier girls versus me were treated was night and fucking day. And it's not even like these girls were nicer than me or anything, they were just perceived as looking better.

My male colleagues were either flat out rude or indifferent towards me. I'll make another post to really talk about it.