My Loneliness Is a Nightmare that I Can't Wake Up From

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[–]talking_orange_69[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Before COVID I did put myself out there. I am about the shyest person you would ever meet yourself but I would gather the courage to make small talk with strangers at the bus stop. Heck, I have approached complete strangers in a coffee shop and asked them if they would like to grab a coffee sometimes. I joined hobby clubs and went hiking. However men either ignore me or never follow up when I ask them out. Trust me if I had a choice I would get out more.

I am doing online dating now but the response is the same. I get a couple of men who would message me but would ghost after a couple of messages. Photofeeler rated my pics 8-9 on attractiveness so I know my pics are good. Men are not just attracted to me.

[–]lurkperks 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

8 or 9 on attractiveness? How about trustworthiness? If you are pretty as you say you are, there must be some bad vibe people are perceiving perhaps?

I wish I could help more but I am perplexed by your situation.

[–]EvilNick 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Photofeeler rated my pics 8-9 on attractiveness so I know my pics are good.

I mean..... do you. Could still be a good pic of an unattractive person