As titled.
I am turning 30 this year. Still single. No friends. I am back on online dating and I feel like I am just scrolling through ghosts, faint vestiges of a romance that will never come. Why other women and not me? I am lonely. One man is no man. The social isolation gets to me. Sometimes I can't tell if I exist to other people. If I walk right into a person, will they just dissipate, like wisps of cloud around an open hand?
I had a conversation with a colleague last week. He asked me what I do for fun and I said I read. He asked what else. My mind blanked. There is literally nothing else. And it struck me that my world, for the most part, exists solely in books. Whatever I sought from life could not be found in the world so I retreated deeply into myself. Without books there would be no solace, no comfort. Without books there is no world. I can see my coworker struggle to understand how "small" my reality was. Oh, here is an odd woman who has no other hobbies but reading. If only he understood. I know how others see me but I don't think they really understand what it is like to be this emotionally alone. I had tried to fit in with the world but was rejected at every turn. With books one can live. Without books there is no life at all.
I don't know if there is even a point to this post. I am just lonely.
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