I'm just speaking in general terms. I thinks it's hard to really say where any tendency of any individual really comes from as everyone is different. I would say that, again in general terms, certain tendencies could be attributed to certain types of people.

I think the alternative is the hard work of actually learning to communicate and trust each other. This entails being able to communicate and accept each others differences without reacting in anger etc.

https://anarkokomunismolando.org/ didn't work

I'm definitely a teach a man to fish over give a man a fish kind of person.