What were your sexual goals before you realized you were incel?

submitted by FrothySolutions from self.RealIncels

First, I wanted to hook up with my classmates. I graduated without hooking up with my classmates.

So I thought "I'll get a job that introduces me to an exciting social class and I'll hook up with the people I meet in my new life." That didn't pan out.

Around this time I started wondering "Just how weird is it that I haven't had sex yet?" The 40-Year-Old Virgin was also out about now, so I decided "If I'm 40 and I still haven't got a sex life, I am officially beyond normal and a normal approach won't work." I continued to look in my professional life, but I also started wondering"If I do hit 40 without having sex,, what would make it worth the wait?"

I figured it would be fun to have sex with porn stars. So I thought about what it is that porn stars seek in sexual partners so I could see how I could match that. By the time I was 42 (closer to 43) I actually met Gianna Michaels and asked her what it took to satisfy her. She wouldn't tell me.

As I left the strip club, I started plotting my next move. But the fact that I was approaching 43 and still "strategizing" made me aware of an obvious issue I hadn't paid much attention to: I've broken the 40-year mark, I'm still a virgin, and I have no plan. Maybe I'll come up with a plan, but I am officially "different from the normies" now.

And so began my self-identifying as what would eventually be termed as "incel."

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[–]LadiesMan 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

You've lived a miserable life, just like me. Women always made it very obvious what they thought of me however, so I wouldn't say I ever really "plotted" my next moves. I've been an "incel" ever since I found the original or second sub on reddit, 7 or 8 years ago.

[–]FrothySolutions[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

But you had aims for sex before then, right?

[–]LadiesMan 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Of course. Still do.

[–]FrothySolutions[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

So what were they, before you realized you were incel?

[–]LadiesMan 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

To have sex with a woman my friend.

[–]William_World 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

you should have long ago realized it wasn't happening. Your looks must have already been terrible and they keep getting worse after about age 25. Age 43? It was over long ago friend.

[–]winkot 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Are you typing 40 by accident? Every normie statistic (full of liars, but that's a different topic) agrees that only the bottom 1% are virgin at 25.

I am a virgin at 22. I am 181 cm tall, slightly above average face, have muscles. I am way beyond the point where I can hold on to hope, because I am someone who will forever be 4th dimensionally robbed of a relationship for the first 22 years of my life, which was also completely out of my control. I did not mess up in any way if not leaving a pathetic unfair world doesn't count.

[–]alexstein 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

funky town but on a huite woman