Maybe the fact that there is no way to get laid (and especially if you only want women who like you for you) is actually good. Because more people will see they are creating the idea in their mind that sex is valuable. It isn't objectively valuable. While if you were given some kind of a carrot then you would be stuck chasing the carrot. Instead there is no escape, no opportunities, and therefore you are left to see this truth.

Even if there were necessary health benefits to sex that were given, you'd have no objective way to decide that those are better or truly necessary. Moving the problem doesn't solve it. And you can in fact function without sex.

Your earthly desires are simple torture instruments. Women aren't people for you to get laid with, they are asexual monsters. Their love which they give to another man cannot be hypothetically applied to you and again is a torture machine. It is necessarily this way, this is not an opinion or something to be disputed. This is obvious and factual in a way that I can't explain but maybe you should think of it as rejecting fantasies in the way that a perfect sapient entity would. It's also obvious and factual in the way that this is just what is, and not what is behind the scenes.

Someone can be as judgmental and bad as they want, I can choose that it doesn't influence me. Life is absurd, and to recap, you are an entity thrust into a world where people submit to sadism exclusively directed at disadvantaged men and bluepilled brainwashing completely. And what they say does not matter.

Just let go.