When I say some form of a job, I mean enough so we can contribute to rent and bills and stuff. but yea other requirements are the respect and affection, including a good understanding of consent and maybe liberal in general (not racist/homophobic/etc, and please dear god be attracted to other adults), i don't care too much about smoking and drinking as long as it's in moderation and away from the home, and house duties are split between us. I'd say a man who can cook as well but that'd just be hypocritical of me lol. Also be on my folks' good side (bonus points if you're a science or engineering man)

180 cm (5'11") in the US, but to women, that's shit-tier and undateable

mf I am 5'5, everyone's tall to me and those women are wrong assuming they're my height

mostly = i feel like im not as straight as i thought cuz my attraction's all whack but I got other stuff going on rn. I can't imagine myself in a relationship, but then again most of my imagination goes to fanfiction.

Self-respecting men don't want to be with lesbians

... that's how lesbians generally work

now as far as other men go (James is a singer/youtuber btw, stream Gold), abusiveness usually ends up there bc the women in question have low self esteem and don't think they deserve anything better. While I admit I was considering sugar daddies just for basic costs, it wouldn't happen solely bc im scared of the sex part of those deals. I've been talking to a guy thats been way better to me than the pedos of my high school days plus meets a few of the requirements from earlier so thats cool so far.