You ain't ever gonna fit in with other women so let go of that dream right now.

You need to be interesting and have things to offer so you can be the weird friend they invite out occasionally.

Being reliable and not telling secrets will make you in demand as a friend even when they all fall out with each other.

Don't try to larp what normal women do socially because it doesn't even work out for them in the long term.

If you just want to look like a woman that men would be interested in that's pretty easy. Wear flowery dresses and natural makeup and ask him loads of questions about himself, which is his favourite subject. Don't talk about gossip or drama or your insecurities which will drag the mood down. Go out to to have fun and learn rather than to pin someone down.