I thinks its more of /u/OPStolen lucked out in getting a female friend. I don't think its the fact that you are too mental to get a female friend, rather you are just unattractive where women just are repulsed by you being around to be able to form a friendship of any kind. Most men that are friends to women are jesters and thats really all.

That fact that he made friends with her in high school proves he got lucky to be in the right social circle, yet it wont make him attractive. Social groups are tribalised, but after school there is no need for a foid to hang out with an incel unless she has no other people better to hang out with. His asian foid friend has already made her mind up about OP so its unlikely he can change her mind about changing their friendship.

The socializing with women would be an advantage for chads and normies against others but not incels as you know what to and what not to say. Its why some of us here are double Its over.