Am I supposed to respond kindly?

I couldn't care less. The idea is - we don't come to sit in incel sites so normies with regular lifes will come to those spaces and present themselves as some artificial beings. My life is probably almost the same as yours, except I was born with subhuman looks and that's the only difference in what we might think about certain things. The problem is, even among incels there are different views upon certain things, then still, you aren't anything special to ask questions.

I don't wallow in self pity, I also improved my life a lot lately and if everything will work correctly, in 4-5 months I might be set up for comfortable life. However, it's too late and it's not possible to improve my social life - It will always be and honestly, asking some normie questions (where you literally bait for this particular topic) is just annoying.