https://www.love-shy.net/
This small community is what incels looked like before 2016, before scum completely mangled the term "incel" (read https://archive.ph/iQ4fB). Their members don't use -cel after every word, don't call women "femoids" and don't seek "purity" in terms of no experiences with women/sex.
Of course, the community has some issues. They seem very closed-off and demand registration before you can even read the threads, which turns-off many visitors. I wish they'd change that.
there doesn't seem to be anything here