This one weighs 270lbs! Another weighs 300lbs!

That's not just fat, that's morbidly obese.

I struggle with my weight but not women, my problem is sometimes having too many wonderful women who care about me. Good problem to have.

You're not going to get your ideal partner who's twenty times more attractive than you, as you sit there whining

I agree it's their personality and unreasonable standards.

Like fishing, you have to be or have something people want to attract them. Food, money, love, beauty, humor, talent, style, charisma, character. You can't get something for nothing with no effort and no ability.