Florida teacher 'entered into a romantic relationship' with a student: Deputies

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[–]Ehhhhhh 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (18 children)

I don't think a 12 year old can properly consent and would consider it rape, not fucking.

[–]EternalSunset 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (13 children)

If a boy agreeing to meet a teacher for sex, getting aroused to full erection, repeatedly penetrating her from his own volition and then cumming should be considered rape, then I'm sorry but that word has lost all meaning.

[–]Ehhhhhh 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (12 children)

Sex with a minor is statutory rape. Trying to justify that is gross.

[–]Musky 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (11 children)

My first girlfriend was 36 when I was 17. It's a little weird, but nobody was harmed. It certainly wasn't rape.

I do think the genders matter. Nobody wants old dudes filling up nubile young women with their seed, besides the old dudes, but who cares if a cougar wants to service a young man. More power to them.

[–]Ehhhhhh 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (10 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you. That isn't healthy and shouldn't have been your first relationship.

This kid was potentially 12. Even if he was 15, there is a lot if emotional and mental development ongoing in addition to sexual development.

[–]Musky 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Don't be sorry, it was awesome. She taught me a lot and it was fun. It doesn't have to be a predatory relationship.

[–]Ehhhhhh 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

But it was. If you couldn't form good relationships before 17, there was an issue already. Then for it to be with a 36 year old definitely means there were other issues as well with you and her.

Hopefully, you did grow somewhat but seems that it has affected your acceptance of inappropriate relations between minors and grown adults.

[–]Musky 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Hopefully, you did grow somewhat but seems that it has affected your acceptance of inappropriate relations between minors and grown adults.

I had a positive experience, it goes to reason others could have a positive experience as well.

Then for it to be with a 36 year old definitely means there were other issues as well with you and her.

I was advanced for my age, she was immature for hers. You don't get to pick who you fall for.

[–]Ehhhhhh 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Telling kids that they are "advanced for their age" is a grooming tactic.

[–]Musky 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm sure it is, but sometimes kids are just advanced for their age. I was a little wunderkind. The teachers liked to flirt, but they never did anything inappropriate. I wasn't in a relationship with a teacher, it was after I had graduated with a co-worker.

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    [–]Ehhhhhh 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

    Quit being a pedo enabler

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      [–]Ehhhhhh 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

      It is never appropriate for a 12 and 22 year old to have sex. Period.

      There seems to be a push for the acceptance of sexualizatuon of minors. I guess I know who you shill for.

      [–]chinamancometh 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

      I lost my virginity at 12 to another 12 year old girl. we knew exactly what were doing

      [–]Ehhhhhh 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

      Virgins hardly know exactly what they are doing, so you're already lying.

      12 on 12 isn't a pedo situation and hardly justifies 22 on 12.

      Is disgusting that so many seem to be ok with this abuse.

      [–]chinamancometh 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

      i meant, we knew we were having sex and the risks of it at that age. we were stupid and were careful and it was awkward, but we knew what sex was. where im from plenty of kids lost theirs at that age.

      [–]Ehhhhhh 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

      You couldn't fully understand the risks at 12.