OP needs dating advice

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[–]Alienhunter 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

Just look for single fathers.

[–]Questionable 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

Single Fathers, who have custody, are usually above most peoples' income and class bracket. And are much too focused to be visible to a redditor. Like finding a diamond in the rough.

[–]Alienhunter 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Widower's, wife was crazy abusive, etc, not necessarily.

Of course saying they are not visible to a redditard is correct. Asking for dating advice on reddit is probably worse for your chances of finding one than simply sitting at home home alone would be.

[–]Tom_Bombadil 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Asking for dating advice on reddit is probably worse for your chances of finding one than simply sitting at home home alone would be.

There could be a lonely trans man who's looking for an instant family.

Anything is possible.

That child may develop with issues.

[–]Tarrock 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Single fathers don't want to be dealing with a mutt.

[–]Alienhunter 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Mostly men don't wanna be dealing with kids that aren't their own.

[–]jet199 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

I think they know this woman has a child though.

It's only when they see the kid there's an issue.

[–]Alienhunter 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

She's asking for advice on reddit though. I'd wager there is a very high chance she conveniently "forgets" to mention the kid in the profile because "she doesn't want to scare men away until they have a chance to know her".

[–]Tom_Bombadil 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Just look for single fathers.

Single father's have experience.

Many have learned discernment.

If you have to hide the face of your child...
Not a good sign.