I would have been their perfect ally. I don't care who you want to be in a relationship with, and that's all LGB was supposed to be about. I could even go along with using the "preferred" pronouns for people who were experiencing significant gender dysphoria until a better treatment for the underlying issue was found. But then gay started to mean so much more than just what genitals you like to mash. The kink in pride discussions got toxic af. And then thinking trans = dysphoria and we are all lying to slightly help became trusum/terf. It went from gender neutral things like allowing them to use the disabled to demanding access to womens spaces. If they'd just acknowledged it was a mental illness, they'd probably get more support.