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[–]dilsencySame-sex community 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

How is gender expression policed? What markers and characteristics do our literal gatekeepers lean into when making their judgements? Is self-identification enough? Or must we perform our gender in a way that satisfies the cultural undercurrent of the space?

How about the decency to not invite yourself? This is not an attack on you, stop playing a victim.

[–]HelloMomo 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

How is gender expression policed?

...does anyone do that? I mean, stepping away from trans bullshit for a moment, that would mean, like... shitting on feminine guys, right? Is that an issue?