RantTired of bisexuals being expected to be open to dating trans people by default because we like both biological males and females

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[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I agree that being bi doesnt mean attraction to trans automatically, but being attracted to trans isn't a fetish and it is included in bisexuality, even though not all bisexuals want trans

[–]CuntWorshiperWomenholic full time | vagina fetishist part-time 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I agree that being bi doesn’t mean you’re open to date transgenders just like being lesbian doesn’t mean I’m open to date transmen identified women but one cannot say transgenders cannot be included in bisexual’s attraction chart. Liking a transgender isn’t a fetish by default. Saying a bisexual isn’t capable of being genuinely attracted to a transgender is actually reinforcing the idea that transwomen aren’t men and transmen aren’t women. Everyone has a sex, including transgenders. You not wanting to date a transgender is a sexual preference, not a sexual orientation limitation. And people’s sexual preference should be respected as much as their sexual orientations. Bisexuals may like males but just because they like males it doesn’t mean they have to like Robert even though Robert is male. A bisexual not liking Robert is a sexual preference not a sexual orientation limitation. I like women. Just because I like women doesn’t mean I like any and every woman. I’m not dating a obese woman, I’m not dating a creationist woman, I’m not dating a woke woman, I’m not dating a bisexual woman; that does not mean obese, religious, woke, and bisexual women are not women nor it means lesbians aren’t capable of being attracted to such women, it just mean I am not. Learn the difference between sexual preference and sexual orientation because the confusion of these two things is the exactly reason why dropthet unfortunately needs to exist.

As for their reputation... well, it takes time to build a reputation, whether is a bad or good reputation. If you have a reputation, especially one that outlive time and oceans, you may deserve it. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Reputations do not born out of nowhere, that I know.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I mean, I'm pretty sure you're attracted to bi women, bi isn't a look or a character. You don't want to date them because they're more risky, which I get. I prefer lesbian too by a long shot, but open to date bi for practical set but need to make sure they're interest in women is at least equal to that of man, much better if they got a female preferance. And I'm not dating obese women, nor I'm dating butches, nor dominant women, not women with low level of intelligence, nor women who too clingy or self-obsessed, nor women who don't eat pussy like a champ, not blonde with bloue eyes (this is more like a joke, but tend to find too light womjen cold), women with low libido and so and so on. Which doesn't make them any less women, but anyone has their liking.

[–]CuntWorshiperWomenholic full time | vagina fetishist part-time 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'm pretty sure you're attracted to bi women

Errm. I’m not any more attracted to them than I am attracted to a very well passing transwoman. I may lust over them just by see them if they are hot but in the minute I know that have a dick or are dick suckers the attraction is naturally gone. So I would say I’m not attracted to them. Visual appeal by itself isn’t enough to characterize sexual attraction imo. The point I’m making is, my attraction or lack of it towards a bisexual is a sexual preference, not sexual orientation. My attraction or lack of it towards a a transwoman is sexual orientation, not sexual preference, given that I’m homosexual. Sexual orientation =/= sexual preference. And the tentative to divorce sexual orientations from sex is the reason why homosexuals and heterosexuals are bullied into be open to the sex they don’t like for the sake of transness.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I agree bisexuality is about sex and that's naturally include trans as they belong to a sex , they're not a third gender nor they're a fetish. Anyway didn'tknow some lesbians felt that way as completely losing attraction when knowing someone is bi. Fascinating how attraction works