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[–]grammaroo 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

you know, i wasnt going to type this but after watching this video and seeing that vulnerable gay autistic kid being humiliated like that, no one has been more cowardly and damaging and toxic to the gay community than cowardly gay black males.

Im not white but white gays and lesbians had their little "revolution" and put white straight people in their place and fought for their rights and everyone else benefited from it as well. But gay black men spent all their resources and time pretending they were "erased", rely on white gay people to regulate homophobia within the black community while also having the gaul to call gay whites racist as the original "fuck me you bigots" rhetoric.

It was originally gay black people who created the architecture of "fuck me you bigot" campaigns within the gay community and thought they were military war generals leading some coalition of races against "the white gays" because they imagined white gays to be magical millionaire/doctor/lawyer/CEO"s who they could marry and escape the homophobia from the black community they let fester because of their cowardice. It's interesting how gay white bodies were supposed to be passed around for every other member of the community but the asians, latinos and blacks wouldnt touch each other with a 10 foot pole so these incels cause a lot of toxicity and damage within the gay community. They come into the gay community with charges of racism for incel issues and turned their entire gay civil rights movement into having the right to have a white dick up their ass but wouldnt say a peep about the homophobia within the black community. It just taught me that people are only brave enough to confront the "nice gay community" over the most trivial garbage, hence why we're flooded by bullies but these black gay men would shit their pants if they had to tell black men and women to shut it when it comes to their homophobia. The most liberal of the liberal of black people are notoriously homophobic. Joy Reid is supposed to be a liberal and a black news anchor for MSNBC and it was revealed she had a secret blog talking about her disgust for gay people and how homophobia just "feels right" and is "natural" when she forgot that the disgust for the colour of her skin "feels right" to a lot of people. If a white person even blinked the wrong way, she'd turn herself into a martyr and go on a rant about racism but all the black people defending her with their sense of entitlement of "all i know is, no one is removing a black woman or they'll be hell to pay" and gay black people there diminishing the deep seriousness of her deep levels of homophobia. And gay black males formed "coalitions" with transexuals who are black and honestly, nothing makes me happier seem themselves completely destroyed, diminished to the point where gay black men dont even exist now because they've been defeated by the black trans people and are completely invisible so good for them. they earned their actual, true "erasure" and theyre nothing but super bitter incels who no gay person will come to the aid to when theyre degraded by the black homophobia they excused for so long thinking they would "earn" a place with black straight people if they willingly used themselves as a cover to excuse the violent homophobia within the community they felt so much loyalty to. The only responsibility the gay community has is to empower you to confront or stand up against the heterosexual community you come from. thats it. You dont see gay middle easterners demand we respect islam or gay chinese people asking what we're doing for the heterosexual chinese community. The amount of narcissism from gay black men (and im assuming women but im gay and have no experience with them) is astonishing and as a middle easterner, seeing people acquiesce to them at the expense of the gay community is insane. Black homophobia is incredibly high because black gay people never do their jobs to call it out.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I don’t know if the jerk who recorded the footage was black, so your post is an entirely different subject from what we see in this video.

I have limited experience with gay men who aren’t white - then again, I have limited experience with the gay community because most gay men in my country go to Dublin for some reason. The one exception was an Egyptian gay man who expressed concern about the overly sexualised nature about the gay community in general, which is fair. There are a lot of black gay men who would rather lash out against white gay men instead of confront the homophobia of black heterosexuals. But there are some Asian gay men like that as well. Peter Kim is an example of a gay Asian male who whinges about white gay men from white countries "being racist" for the audacity of finding Asian gay men exotic, whilst whinging about white gay men not wanting to sleep with Asian men even though he has a white husband. He has Korean ancestry, and South Korea doesn’t allow gays in their military or recognise same sex unions, but he never talks about how South Korea treats gay men. And as a white gay man, I can confirm that white gay men have our own issues. White gay liberal men are the most obnoxious people out there, and they have no love for their communities or their countries. They even hate themselves for being white and male, which is ridiculous and pathetic. Plus, it’s mostly white liberals who push transgenderism, multiculturalism and global corporatism, so we definitely share some of the blame. But you are right, I wish that black gay men would stand take a stand against homophobia from the black community and work with gay men of other races including white gay men, though I’m sure there are black gay men who see where the problem lies and speak out.

[–]grammaroo 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

im middle eastern but white liberal gay men basically created the foundation for the gay civil rights movement and most of our problems would be over if every other ethnic group did the same thing instead of whining about how white gay men cant be used, exploited or manipulated to do even more work for them. solidarity is nice but going to white gay people and asking them what theyre doing for black heterosexuals is fucking insane.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I agree that white gays don’t owe anything to heterosexuals of other races. No gay person owes anything to anyone, let alone to any straight person of another race. Basic decency should still be expected of everybody though, but most white gays are decent towards everyone anyway.