LifestyleTrying to figure out my sexuality but everywhere else is just steeped in queer theory BS

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[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

It sounds to me that you're Bisexual. From what I've heard, the master doc is full of shit. Lesbians are also very sexualized. Transbians are obsessed with lesbians, not bisexual girls because we're the "ultimate" validation for them. If a lesbian dates them, it means they're "real" women. It's definitely not easier being a lesbian. Accept yourself as bisexual (if that's the case indeed), there will be people who will love you just as you are.

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I googled the masterdoc because today was the first I'd heard of it, and I was amazed how so much of what I'd consider bisexual behavior was hand-waved away with "yes, you too can be a lesbian!" and I'm not an L, so I try to stay out of it, I'm not going to be the asshole who gatekeeps Lesbianity, but I'd love to hear what actual lesbians think about this thing.

Here it is, in case anyone reads this comment and wants to see it for themselves:

https://docs.google.com/document/d/e/2PACX-1vT3f5IIzt5PG-M7G9_Z-gjY4gZaiUneTdMlYrFAcdBGcJo0-N-RDQcj2JfxOaBTxKa6J_DiDQNgqVpg/pub?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app

[–]Gearbeta 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, this doc is total nonsense. There's just way too much in there about being disappointed in or scared of relationships with men and well, unfortunately, that's extremely common with straight/bisexual women. But it's not a sign that you're a lesbian otherwise, most women would be lesbians. It really is a simple matter of sexual attraction, can really just be boiled down to, when you see men have you ever gotten a crush on one or wanted to have sex with one? When you see a woman have you ever gotten a crush on one or wanted to have sex with one?