What was your realisation moment when you knew you are social reject

submitted by Mazurro from self.Incels

I'm not saying about a specific experience where you were bullied or treated like shit, but like a general happening which just kicked into you which made you realize.

For me it was that "I invite entire class" phrase said by anyone still didn't mean that I am invited. It was predetermined as "entire class but not Mazurro"

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[–]greybeard 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Yeah the implicit assumption that I'm excluded is pretty high up there.

Most hurtful was probably when I was excluded from the dating game young adults play. Most experienced teenage love but I didn't even go the school dance.

[–]Vortex 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

dating game young adults play

What is this?

[–]greybeard 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I mostly mean implicit mating behaviour like flirting, but also more explicit stuff like "spin the bottle"

[–]Vortex 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There wasn't moment. It was a long way from "I'm same as other guys" to "I'm completely different". Started with video games, music, humor, movies, then how they spend their free time, my attitude to them and stuff.

[–]yabbit 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

bruh all my life. even my family socially rejected me kek. I guess when I really knew was in middle school when puberty hit and I lost all my niggas after they started getting bitches. didn't help that I was the only ethnic in a school full of mogger aryan kids and I was autistic and smelled like shit. I feel alright now because I have an online incel community but before it was fuckin rough. I don't know what I'd do without the innet