Prostitution or escorting shouldn't be the goal

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[–]EternalSunset 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I don't think anyone sees it as an end-goal, but it can be a positive experience for the right person. A lot of incels on our old reddit communities reported on their experience with escorts and prostitutes and most of them said that it was extremely pleasurable and transformative. And, emotionally speaking, I think seeing a prostitute will be a far safer experience than getting into an actual relationship for an incel; a whore won't lie to you about loving you, a whore won't abandon you, a whore can't cheat on you, a whore won't have fights with you, a whore won't make you have to deal with her bullshit and drama, a whore won't abuse you, etc... Just business without any illusions, compromises or false hopes.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

And the thought of having to pay money for it sounds so...artificial.

But I also see what you mean. I thought that even if a guy didn't have incel-ish tendencies and is able to get women okay, it may not always be worth it because of factors.

For one example, I have a dream girl designed inn my head to look a certain way. What are the chances of finding it, let alone if she would even like me back?

[–]EternalSunset 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And the thought of having to pay money for it sounds so...artificial.

If you subscribe to any of the "pilled" ideologies, you know that women simply seek men for what they are able to offer them. If you are redpilled, then you know she seeks you because of your dominance and your status as an alpha, no different from a pack animal, whereas if you are blackpilled, then you know that she seeks you because of you superior genes that will ensure her offspring has the highest level of evolutionary fitness possible, also like a pack animal. Either way, it was never about who you were deep inside, but always about the things you could offer her; nothing more than a transaction, the qualitative difference of the one carried out honestly in pure money highly questionable.

A woman will never love you the way you want to be loved.